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The “Be Independent, Ha, Ha” Bind

Pages 316-320
Published online: 28 Dec 2017
 
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A female script called, “Be Independent, Ha, Ha!” is described which creates a bind based on the injunctions Don't Be Close, Don't Think, and Don't Make It. Horney's (1934/1973) article, “The Overvaluation of Love,” is discussed in relation to this script, and an alternative hypothesis regarding the genesis of this script in terms of abandonment and female identity issues is offered. Clinical interventions are also suggested.

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Barbara Little Horse

Barbara Little Horse, M.A., is a Certified Transactional Analyst. She works as a management training specialist with the New York City Department of Social Services and as a psychotherapist in private practice.